26 October, 2015

Well here I am! I am in the zone Guarapiranga, in the area of Chácara Santana. My companion and I live in the tiniest apartment with 2 other sisters. There´s about 1 foot of clearance above my head when I lay down in my bunk bed. The shower is in the corner of the bathroom on the same surface. I have no shelves on which to put things, only a clothes rack and my suitcases stacked up.
India's 1st Apartment Living Room
Our kitchen is TINY and the appliances are ancient. We get our water by tipping 5 gallon bottles on their side and holding a cup out next to it. Haven´t done laundry yet, but we have a washer and a very small space to hang the stuff to dry.
Indias 1st Apartment kitchen
There are lots of hills and lots of weird houses that are just sort of mixtures of concrete and bricks and everything else. It´s not the poorest, but not super nice either. I feel safe here though. It´s not a favela. There are so many feral dogs and cats here. It´s a struggle not to pet them all, but then I notice them all scratching themselves because pests. Gross. Poor things.


My companion is nice and very patient with me, but she´s from the north of Brazil so when I imitate the words she says I´m speaking with the wrong accent… She pronounces some of her r´s like French, and s´s like a shh sound.



Some things I´ve noticed about Brazilians. They don´t understand cats. They just pick them up and force them to sit in their laps and pet them kind of violently. I feel sorry for them. Also don´t ever cry in front of a Brazilian. all they´ll do is say “BE HAPPY.” And touch your arms and stuff. Like, please just let me cry and don´t touch me. Thanks. Also they don´t sell tissues in the grocery store here. Which is a problem because the mold in our house is killing me. So I use gross one-ply toilet paper. You have to throw the toilet paper into a bin here; you can´t flush it. That´s fun. I´m used to all that now for the most part.

Also the school bells here no joke sound like London bomb sirens.

IT´s pretty chilly right now, although today so far is a bit warmer. I wore tights when we went tracting last night.

Okay, some significant things. I had my first baptism yesterday! This girl, G, is the child of some less-active members, and since she´s 9 and hadn´t been baptized yet, it was our job to teach her! She´s super goofy and my companion had to actually grab her hand to get her to hug here afterwards. Our “padrões de ouro” or patterns we need to keep weekly here are 21 new investigators, 15 with a baptismal date marked, and 5 in Sacrament meeting on Sunday. That last one is actually the hardest. These people are great and will listen to you and promise whatever, but they´re a little flakey. We ended up getting enough investigators to church yesterday, but 4 of them either didn´t get out of bed, or just left before we came to get them.

Oh man though, we found this family of 4, and they´re perfect! We taught them the Restoration (Well I at least tried to help… I talked about prophets and nodded my head a lot) and they all said they´d be baptized. The dad, J, wouldn´t commit to a date and neither would the mom, which was frustrating. BUT THEN as we were leaving, Sister N (my comp) said “Oh, what´s your family name so we can write it in our planners) and they were like, “Oh we´re not legally married”. WHAT. You have two teenage daughters and a house together and you didn´t just bother to sign a piece of paper? I was warned that this was a problem here but I see it more now. But this week we´re gonna teach them the Plan of Salvation and about eternal families, and I have a lot of faith that their hearts will change, and they´ll be willing to get married and be baptized on the 15th with their daughters.


We also taught this lady, whose name I can´t remember, on the street. she talked forever about her family so we gave her a Plan of Salvation pamplet and set an appointment. We went back yesterday and she showed us (I don´t know how i didn´t notice before) a HUGE TUMOR the size of a softball, protruding from the front of her belly. WHAT EVEN. She told us she´s afraid of doctors but not of dying (she´s 77) so that´s that. She´ll get baptized, I know it.



Yesterday we marked 3 people for baptism on the same street. But again Brazilians are flakey so we´ll see. JK they´re all gonna get baptized, I know it.



This is incredibly hard work. My legs are killing me, and I don´t understnad about 60% of what they´re saying because they talk so fast. Therefore I don´t really know how to respond. But i know as I exercise more faith and try reaaaallllly hard to understnad, this week will be much better. It´s just frustrating because I don´t really have the ability to say what I´m thinking yet. PLus I´m just scared. I don´t like talking to people in English, let alone in a brand-new language. But hey, it´s worth it when these few golden people get found and converted. And let me tell you right now, I would have gone home already if I didn´t know beyond a doubt that these things are true. Joseph Smith was a prophet and the Gospel was restored through him. Jesus Christ is our savior. He felt every pain, sorrow, sin, and other awful things, and through repentance we can be cleansed and healed. I know that! This is all true, people! YOu just have to open your mouth, and I know someone will listen eventually.



Love you all!

Sister Westenhaver

20 October 2015

India and Daltons

I only have a couple minutes to write you guys, and I didn´t get to read anything. But just so you know I´m alive, and not too freaked out yet. Well I was and then I felt good and then I was afraid again. It´s SO HARD to understand these people when they talk at normal speed. Presidente Dalton said that these first 2 transfers (the first 12 weeks) will be the hardest of my mission and possibly of my life. Prayers would be appreciated. I think I´ll be okay! My companion seems very sweet so far! She only has 4 months left on her mission. I hope she´ll be a good trainer. Hope everything is going well at home or wherever you are as this email reaches you! Love you all! Talk to you next Monday, if I´m still alive.

India and comp

16 October 2015

India and Hoolandsworth

(Here is a picture of India with her companion, Sister Hollandsworth)

Hi Family,

We leave on Tuesday for o campo missionario!! We only have 2 more lessons to teach tomorrow, and then we have to have orientation, pack, and do a whole bunch of other stuff. I don´t know too much about what´ll be going on, but yeah.

India at Mr. Cheneys

I really like sitting next to York at breakfast. He still exaggerates things as much as usual. He hasn´t changed much. But he´s nicer, at least.
It´s starting to get hot here. GREEEEEAAT. I´ll survive.
I´m really gonna miss my comp. We get along so well.  Also speaking English is nice, and I don´t really get to speak any after Tuesday.
On Sunday I had to give a spontaneous talk in Sacrament meeting. They pick 2 elders and 2 sisters to speak and they announce them after the Sacrament, and luckily I actually wrote a talk this week. Phew! It was good though, I talked about faith.
I´m a bit nervous to go out into the field. I´m not good at talking to new people, let alone in Portugues, and I´m not sure how my back is gonna hold up. But I knew through faith, obedience, and hard work, I can do anything out here. I´m excited to start teaching new people and bringing them the Gospel that I love so much. I know there are so many people out here just waiting for us to reach out and tell them. the Gospel changes lives, and I can´t wait to show people.
The longer I´m here the more I realize that there are some central elements to the Gospel, and to a strong testimony. The first, obviously, is Jesus Christ. He literally is the center of our faith. With his Atonement we can be clean from sin, understand the necessity of hard things in life, overcome pain and sad things, get through trials, and be worthy to hear the Spirit speaking to you. That is so critical, not just as a missionary, but in general. The other thing is the Love of God. Because God loves us, He gave us the things he has: the ability to repent, the Book of Mormon, the Bible, the priesthood, the Plan of Salvation, a prophet today, families, everything. Literally everything we have in this life is because of the love our Heavenly Father has for us. Beyond a doubt I know He is our loving Heavenly Father, and he wants nothing more than for us to return to his presence. That´s why I´m here. Because I know I can help people get there.
Love always, Sister West

9 October, 2015

SAM_0132Hello!!!  General Conference was awesome! We watched conference in portugues but the English speakers had headphones to listen in English. It was great! I especially liked Larry Lawrence´s talk about making small changes to your life. I decided that this week I was going to work on complaining less and finding more joy in my life. And I have! Ít’s really cool to make an effort to see the world in a more positive light, and I plan to keep continuing doing that. I also liked Elder Christofferson, Nelson, and Eyring’s talks.

We had the best lunch a couple of days ago! Nachos made with Doritos! And there was salsa and
avocado on the side. SO GOOD. The food really is hit or miss here….

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Here’s something significant! In case you can´t tell from the pictures I´ve been sending, I´ve actually dropped some weight since I´ve gotten here. About 6 or 7 pounds, actually! Amazing what 45 minutes of exercise can do for you, 5 times a week. I love exercise time actually. Afterwards we get time to shower with way fewer people than normal, and we all just sing in the showers. Mostly Disney songs.

My companion and I have been sitting by York and his district at meals quite frequently. It´s so cool having him here! He´s a funny guy.

We only have 1.5 weeks left until the field. I can’t believe it!

Teaching is getting easier as we learn the lessons better. Some of them we don´t really know yet, but we´re getting there. Portuguese is going all right. We´re learning verb tenses which is great, but I feel like I´m limited to a certain pool of words and I wish my vocabulary were bigger. That will come with time though, I know. We have this cool thing we´re doing where we pick a person (a non-member) we know and pretend to be an investigator being taught by other people in our district. It´s really eye-opening to see things from the perspective of someone who isn´t familiar with the Gospel or the church, and try and understand how I can help them out better with understanding.

Missionaries sure pray a lot. I should count how many times a day…

We got two new roommates. One is Brazilian and lives in York´s mission, and the other is Latina. They seem nice, and quiet. And they don´t complain when we leave the window open and the fan on at night. Which is great because it gets very hot in that room! Some of our lessons are recorded and we watch them the next day. I wish I could send you guys the video so you could be all impressed with the amount of Portuguese I can speak. All right that´s all for now!!! I love you guys. Keep me posted.

2 October, 2015

Hi Everyone!
The craziest part of this week was definitely proselyting. We got on a bus with four copies of the Book of Mormon each, and got off at a huge bus and metro stop. Our instructor, Irmao A. was with us. My companion and I were so terrified of going up and talking to people that our instructor had to walk up with us. But then after that first time, we weren´t so terrified. We gave away our 8 copies in an hour. It was so loud we couldn´t hear a lot of people and sometimes we just plain couldn´t understnad them, and they could tell we didn´t really speak Portuguese, but we only got rejected 3 times! People here are nice and everyone we talked to believes in God and Christ. It was cool and THE LITERAL most terrifying experience of my life. Seriously.
It did hurt a little when some of them told us they only understood a little bit of what we were saying. But oh well. But also I didn´t realize I have no idea how to make small talk. What do you ask people about themselves??? Neither of us really have any idea.
My companion and I are getting a lot better at speaking in sentences with conjugate verbs and everything, but it´s still a struggle. It´s going to be tough for the first few months, I can tell.
I see York pretty often but not a ton. He seems like he´s doing well and the elders in his district are really cool.
We got a new sister in our district this week. She’s really cool and is super tall. But it meant that the 3 of them had to move out of our room. Now Sister H. and I have a room all to ourselves, which is awesome, but also means we keep staying up too late talking. Oops.
Yeah, about the porridge York keeps talking about? I don´t eat it. It´s gross.
Also our MTC president and his wife are awesome! They´re american, and they speak English and Portuguese to us. It just depends. The devotionals are in Portuguese though. Also I loved the funeral for Elder Scott. It was really nice, and I´m glad we got to watch it.
We went to the temple today, and it was awesome sitting in the celestial room. I was praying and I realized that what I want most is to be able to serve these people with my whole heart. I don´t want to be scared and reluctant. So that´s what I´m going to try and work on. Ugh. It´s going to difficult. It´s hard not to revert to my introverted self when I don´t even speak the language. But I know it will be okay with daily help from Heavenly Father.
Love you all! Hope you´re doing great.
Love,
Sister West